Building Strong Relationships Through Community Care

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In a society that often emphasizes individualism, it's vital to remember the power and beauty of collective support. In this episode, I dive into what community care is all about and why it's essential for our well-being.


What is Community Care?

Community care involves individuals coming together to support and nurture one another. It's about creating networks of mutual aid, compassion, and understanding within communities. This concept emphasizes the idea that we thrive when we care for each other and that our well-being is intricately linked to the well-being of those around us. I don’t know about you, but having a community that I can rely on has helped my mental health in so many ways, and I want to break down how community care can help to support your well-being.


Why is Community Care Important?

When we feel supported and connected, we are more resilient and better equipped to navigate life's ups and downs. Community care fosters a sense of belonging, reduces isolation, and promotes mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. It's also a powerful tool for social change, as it encourages solidarity and collective action. However, knowing who is in your community is important because, like I said in this episode, everyone you meet is not your friend.


The Circle of Support Model


Let’s explore the Circle of Support Model, which provides a framework for understanding the different layers of community care and support that we can find in others.


1. Circle of Intimacy
The innermost circle consists of those closest to us, such as family members, partners, and close friends. We share our deepest fears, joys, and vulnerabilities with these individuals. They provide unconditional love, empathy, and understanding, and their support forms the bedrock of our well-being.


2. Circle of Friendship
The next circle includes friends, colleagues, and mentors who offer companionship, encouragement, and a sense of camaraderie. These relationships may not be as intimate as those in the first circle, but they are pivotal in providing emotional and social support. Think of the friend who you enjoy being social with, like going to brunch, hitting up the movies, or even having a FaceTime call every now and then. You may not be extremely close, but there is still value in being connected despite the degree of closeness.


3. Circle of Participation
In this circle, we find our broader community, including neighbors, community groups, and local organizations. These connections offer a sense of belonging, shared purpose, and practical support. Engaging with this circle allows us to contribute to the well-being of others while also receiving support in return.


4. Circle of Exchange
The outermost circle comprises the wider society, including institutions, advocacy groups, and service providers. This circle ensures that systemic support and resources are available to meet diverse needs within the community. It emphasizes the importance of reciprocity and the redistribution of resources to create a more equitable and caring society.


Building Our Circles of Support

Nurturing our circles of support requires intentional effort and active engagement. It involves showing up for others, expressing care and empathy, and being open to receiving support in return.

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